How To Recognize A Sexy Woman


A sexy woman is one who leaves much to the imagination. And in so doing, leaves much to be desired.

A sexy woman is someone who knows that beauty moves from the inside, out.  She spends time exercising, cleaning and feeding it.

A sexy woman is someone who knows that clothing, jewellery and hair are designed to draw the eye to her inner beauty.  It is the main attraction.

A sexy woman knows that her body is also an accesory to the main feature.

A sexy woman has natural intelligence that she submerges for no one.  She knows who she is and treasures it.

A sexy woman is obvious – you can tell by the way she delights in the succulent experience of a juicy peach while sex is the furthest thing from her mind.

A sexy woman is someone who knows that sex is not about body parts.  It is ironically about being pure of heart.

A sexy woman keeps healthy: body, mind and spirit.  She is wholesome.  She does not cuss.

A sexy woman is someone who will not agree to an expensive supper on the first date.  She wants to get to know you first, at an afternoon coffee and a walk in the park.

A sexy woman can intuitively recognize a sexy man.  And she will not commit herself until she knows he’s the one.

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9 thoughts on “How To Recognize A Sexy Woman

  1. Thanks for very interesting commenting on mydigest.wordpress.com and I hope you do not mind my responding INSIDE each of the comments. Cheers, Cy

  2. Sounds like you know well what you like in a woman, G. Also, reading between the lines, it sounds like you are against premarital sex. Am I jumping to conclusions?

  3. Thanks for putting me on the spot, Peg (he says winking and smiling) 😉

    I believe that sex has become an overrated touchstone for determining whether someone can become a life-long partner for you. In fact I view sex as an obstacle to finding that life-long partner because it often makes you believe you have a relationship which is deeper than it really is. It confuses a person’s – especially a young person’s – ability to intelligently choose a partner.

    Men often confuse sex with intimacy (they equate the two) and think they’ve created an instant life-long partnership because they’re getting well laid. On the other hand, women believe they’ve found a life-long partner (soul mate) because they feel “in love.” Both experiences interfere with the process of finding a suitable partner. To men I say, “Let the head between your shoulders govern the one between your legs.” To women I say, “If you let your heart-throb guide your decision to love, your head will pound.”

    If you’re looking for a “mate”, put sex on hold until you can honestly and sincerely say that you can committ yourself to that person for life. And by that time, marriage, a common-law life-long relationship or permanent partnership is the outcome, and you can wait. If your looking for a “date”, then you’re looking for a “date.”

    Too often I’ve heard, esecially from men, that they want to “test drive the vehicle” before “buying it.” Over the years I’ve discovered that this translates into simply wanting to get laid. Besides, the best blue-ribbon sex is not had by relative strangers (although some people claim this); it’s had by men and women in a committed relationship who over time have gotten to know one another’s bodies, minds, hearts and spirits, and who realize that these lie on a continuum (body-mind continuum). Sex is a celebration of the relationship (intimacy) you’ve already created; it does not create the relationship (intimacy).

    Sex, as it’s been understood during our so-called sexual revolution, has been a truncated affair of body parts, tallied orgasms and physical experimentation. And it’s been severed from the continuum I’ve mentioned above. Because of this I would caution people and have them ask and wonder what it is they’re searching for in a relationship. If it’s just a date, why waste your time with intimacy building; if it’s a mate you’re looking for, why would you want to hobble your ability to make an intelligent and informed decision about a person with whom you plan to spend the rest of your life?

    I have more to say, but enough…read my article in the section called “In Praise of Men” called ‘Finding Ms. Right.’ It expands on some of these ideas.

  4. A sexy woman is one who leaves much to the imagination. And in so doing, leaves much to be desired.
    RD. One of the most eloquent statements a woman can make is to let a man see her naked. Hence away from pool and spa, she should reserve all but her head and hands for the one and only in her life. And a sexy woman wants a sensible one piece, not a bikini. If she flaunts the merchandise, maybe it’s because she lacks something between the ears.

    A sexy woman is someone who knows that beauty moves from the inside, out. She spends time exercising, cleaning and feeding it.
    RD. A sexy woman exercises. Sexual passion requires fair muscle tone.

    A sexy woman is someone who knows that clothing, jewellery and hair are designed to draw the eye to her inner beauty. It is the main attraction.
    RD. Purchased accoutrements can only enhance what is there in essence. They cannot make up for a lack of that essence.

    A sexy woman knows that her body is also an accesory to the main feature.
    RD. Namely her personality.

    A sexy woman has natural intelligence that she submerges for no one. She knows who she is and treasures it.
    RD. She develops her intelligence through reading and friendships with witty sophisticated people. Shen then lets that intelligence shine forth in her conversation. A sexy woman never puts a lid on her intelligence for fear of off-putting potential mates.

    A sexy woman is obvious – you can tell by the way she delights in the succulent experience of a juicy peach while sex is the furthest thing from her mind.
    RD. She revels in art, nature, and good food.

    A sexy woman is someone who knows that sex is not about body parts. It is ironically about being pure of heart.
    RD. Our whole culture has sadly strayed far from these noble sentiments.

    A sexy woman keeps healthy: body, mind and spirit. She is wholesome. She does not cuss.
    RD. I am bewildered by the extent to which otherwise sophisticated women nowadays occasionally employ coarse sexual and genital metaphors. The name of the act to which we our existence, and that of the organs employed in that act, should not be terms of degradation and abuse.

    A sexy woman is someone who will not agree to an expensive supper on the first date. She wants to get to know you first, at an afternoon coffee and a walk in the park.
    RD. When a woman agrees to an expensive dinner date, she is putting herself in a difficult position if he proves to be an arrogant cad, and also expects intimacy in return for the money he has spent. Don’t go out to dinner with a fellow until you are prepared to spend the night with him. Better yet, a sexy woman makes the first move, in the daytime, on a man she has known for at least several months.

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